We all know
that humble means not being arrogant or
displaying an attitude of important. Some might say that humble can represent insignificance,
a state of abasement. Some might say that humbleness is a form of weakness, but
is it really.
Humble
people are happy people, always ready to forgive, peacemakers, filled with
gratitude and patient. I would say, humble
people are truly blessed. We cannot live
our lives, in an ungrateful state, remain arrogant and assume we are better
than other people are. Even super rich
people, blessed with all the trappings of material comfort need to be humble.
Why do
people always seek to find the approval of others for deeds done, why is there
an importance to be recognized and remain
exalted. I think this is an empty form of real
joy and happiness. The arrogant, proud
and insolent place their happiness in worldly possessions, but not all do so; there is the super-rich who are humble and
do not boast of the good works done.
Some humble people are both rich and poor, happy and content with whatever life situation they
may confront. It is the changing of attitude toward events that make humble people the star of the show, and not
seeking approval. The millions of little nobodies that contribute to the peace
and love of the universe sending out a
clear message of living a life that is pleasing to G-d.
Humble,
being true to oneself, choosing truth, peace and love as the guiding factor. Consistently remaining grateful for the
universe and the beauty we behold each day. Giving thanks at all times for the
blessings received. Seeking to promote peace and unity. Humbleness is not a form
of weakness; humbleness is the true way to live,
the only one life we have. Being humble opens ups avenues of happiness,
receives G-d’s promises, grace, and
blessings. Why do we choose not to live in a state of humbleness, when there
are so many joys to receive and why do we want
to live a life of arrogant emptiness. Are we lost and afraid?
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Jesus says in Matthew 5:3, "Blessed are the poor in
spirit (the humble, who rate themselves insignificant), for theirs is the
kingdom of heaven!"
Let's face it; humility isn't
a very popular word. Yet, all throughout
the Bible, the Lord instructs us about the benefits of being
"humble-minded."
I love James 4:6. It says, "God opposes the proud, but
gives grace to the humble" (ESV). In other words, the humble get the help!
I believe humility is often misunderstood and even viewed as
a weakness. But it's the exact opposite. Humility places us in a position to
receive God's grace and become everything He's called us to be.
A humble person is also a happy person. They can
take joy in their life and what God has called them to do, regardless of what
the world thinks about it.
For instance, you may think your present assignment from God
is something mundane. The proud person always wants to do something they think
the world will admire…something others
see as "important." The truth is we don't
have to do something important to be important.
We are important because God loves and values us. Our worth
comes from him. As we receive His love and find our true worth in Him,
then we can truly enjoy our purpose in life and live in contentment.
So many people are miserable, constantly comparing themselves
to others who are smarter, prettier, or more successful. But the "poor in
spirit" have the ability to be happy with who they are.
My husband, Dave, is a perfect example. Years ago, the Lord
instructed him to leave his job in the engineering field to help establish
Joyce Meyer Ministries.
At that time, God spoke to his heart and said, "If you
do what I am calling you to do…and allow Joyce to do what I've called her to
do, then you will have a lot of peace and happiness."
Dave is an extremely vital part of this ministry. We are a
team, and he oversees all of the business and financial aspects of the
organization. However, it takes a truly humble man – a man who is secure and
knows that God approves of him – to be okay with his wife being the one
"out front."
I can honestly say that Dave is one of the happiest people I
know. He knows what God has asked him to do…and he is doing it with joy.
What are some other character traits of a humble person?
1. The humble can always ask for help, and they don't insist
on everything being done their way.
2. They are quick to forgive others, difficult to offend, and
content to wait on God for vindication when they have been wronged.
3. They are patient and don't get frustrated with the
weaknesses of others (Galatians 6:2).
4. The humble person is a peacemaker. In fact, we need
humility to maintain peace in our lives. Romans 12:16 is one of my favorite
scriptures. It says, "Live in
harmony with one another; do not be haughty…but readily adjust yourself to
[people, things] and give yourselves to humble tasks. Never overestimate
yourself."
Wow! Just imagine if we all decided to adopt just this one
command from the Bible. If you're like me, so many times you feel like saying,
"My way or no way at all!" But there's a better way…a way that leads
to peace with ourselves and others.
5. A humble person knows when to be quiet. It's certainly not
wrong to talk, but a humble person is comfortable allowing others to have
center stage and doesn't feel the need to speak their mind in every situation.
6. A humble person sees their own weaknesses and can readily
admit them. When we open up to others about ourselves, it can actual encourage
and help them realize they're not the only ones who deal with things.
Dave is very easy going and has what I call "quiet
faults," meaning most people don't immediately see them. I, on the other
hand, have "loud faults" – some of my greatest struggles have been
with my mouth! Now, I certainly don't take joy in Dave's weaknesses, but it
does help on occasion for someone like me to know that he's working on things
too.
7. A humble person happily serves other people, and they don't
do it to be seen. They do it unto God, knowing their reward will come from God.
8. A humble person is very thankful. This is one
reason why they're usually so happy. When we live with an attitude of
gratitude, it releases joy and power into our lives.
9. A humble person has a tender conscience and is quick to
repent.
10. A leader who is truly humble treats everyone with
respect. How a leader treats people is the quickest way to find out their level
of humility.
First Peter 5:6 says, "Therefore humble yourselves
[demote, lower yourselves in your own
estimation] under the mighty hand of God, that in
due time He may exalt you."
The older I get, the more I realize the importance of
humility. Now I pray things like,
"Lord, I can do absolutely nothing without you today. Please
help me – I need your grace in every situation."
I encourage you to pray and ask for God's help. Nobody
changes overnight, but by His grace, you can begin to develop an
attitude of humility…and
discover the life you really want.
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